
mindfulness
blog #003
by Rob Abernethy
When I first heard the term "mindfulness," I must admit that I felt a wave of confusion wash over me. It seemed like one of those buzzwords floating around the wellness community, often referenced but rarely explained. It conjured images of serene meditation sessions and peaceful retreats—things that felt miles away from my reality as a busy individual juggling work, family, and exercise. My initial encounters with mindfulness were met with skepticism and disconnection. How could being "present" really matter in the fast-paced fitness world?
The Struggle to Connect
Initially, I approached my workouts as merely a checklist of tasks. I’d hit the gym or run with a laser focus on my goals: getting stronger, losing weight, or keeping up with a training plan. The concept of slowing down to live in the moment felt foreign and out of touch with my driven mindset. I often found my thoughts racing—thinking about my to-do list, the tasks awaiting me at home, or even my performance metrics. It was as if I was physically exercising but mentally somewhere else entirely.
A Pivotal Moment
The turning point for me came during a particularly stressful week. My workouts felt lackluster, and I was losing motivation. On a whim, I decided to attend a yoga class, hoping that a change of pace might reset my mind. As we moved through the poses, I was surprised to find something unexpected happening. The instructor encouraged us to focus on our breath and connect with our bodies, urging us to notice the sensations we felt in each pose.
That day, I realized mindfulness isn't about forcing quietude or becoming an expert meditator; it’s simply about being present in the moment, even amidst chaos. It struck me that fitness could be a powerful form of mindfulness—a way to fully engage with my body and experience the physical sensations of movement.
Embracing the Journey
From that moment on, I began incorporating mindfulness into my fitness routine. Here’s what I discovered, which I hope can guide you through your journey:
Mindful Breathing: I began with a few minutes of focused breathing before each workout. Taking deep breaths helped me clear my mind of distractions and become anchored in the present moment, allowing me to approach my exercise with intention.
Savoring Each Movement: Whether lifting weights, running, or practicing yoga, I now pay close attention to each movement. I notice how my muscles engage, the rhythm of my heart, and how my body feels in space. This enhances my workouts and fosters a deeper appreciation for what my body can accomplish.
Listening to My Body: Mindfulness has taught me the importance of tuning in to my body’s signals. I no longer push through pain to meet a goal. Instead, I’ve learned to listen to what my body needs. This could mean modifying an exercise, adding extra rest days, or embracing active recovery.
Gratitude in Motion: By incorporating gratitude into my workouts, I focus on what my body has accomplished rather than what it lacks. Whether it’s feeling thankful for the ability to move or appreciating my progress, this shift in perspective keeps my motivation alive and thriving.
The Transformative Power of Mindfulness
Today, mindfulness is no longer a foreign concept but a vital part of my fitness journey. I’ve found that exercising mindfully brings me a unique sense of peace and fulfillment. It’s an excellent way to connect with myself, manage stress, and cultivate a positive relationship with my body.
If you’re feeling skeptical about mindfulness in fitness or struggling to find its relevance, I urge you to explore it with an open heart. Take small steps—start by paying attention to your breath or noticing how your body feels during movement. You might find that mindfulness opens up a world of clarity, strength, and joy in your fitness journey.
In embracing mindfulness, I've learned that fitness is not just about achieving goals—it's about savoring every step. So, let’s celebrate the journey together, one mindful movement at a time.
Stay mindful, my friends.